Note from Heidi: I hope you don't mind, but I am hijacking the regularly scheduled girl-fest to bring you a blog post from a real, live man.
Yes, it's true. He has a Y chromosome and everything. (I've checked.)
My husband, Dan Steenblik, wrote this amazing blog post on August 14, 2009 - two days after our daughter was born, exactly one year ago today on August 12, 2009. I'm not sure what today will hold for the three of us. Dad has promised Nelly an adventure in the mountains. Momma has promised splashings in the fountain at the local park, followed by ice cream. Maybe we'll do something entirely unexpected. After all, it seems like August 12 is the day for the unexpected in our little family....


Dan Steenblik
Whoa, Nelly!

Whoa, Nelly. Pink Belly.
Eleanor Jane Steenblik. She's come early, almost two months.
I am exhausted, overwhelmed. Thank you all for your emails, text messages, voicemails, doorstep muffins and baby suits, mailbox Eeyores, FTD'd roses, Creams of Spinach, and hand-delivered custom calzone creations. Passing your love, prayers, thoughts, and chocolate-covered strawberries on to Eleanor (except the strawberries, sorry).
Nelly is beautiful, and working hard to grow up fast. Her tiny lungs are called to action sooner than expected, and she's pumping like mad to draw the oxygen she needs. I tell her, Nelly Jane, that she is doing it exactly right, practicing for mountain biking with her Uncle Matt and Aunt Martha and our Mighty and Strong family.
Heidi is a heroine, enduring all, with only eyes for Eleanor. Watching her hold Nelly, I am pulled in hard. She is deeply in love and captivated by her hiccups and reaching arms, long toes, and squinting fluttering, almost-opening eyes. She is a mom now - she'll be a good one.
About a week ago, we began reading Charlie and the Chocolate Factory to Nelly in the Belly - an Eleanor Jane unnamed and unknown – my head in Heidi's lap. One of my favorite books when I was a Little Dan, because of the powerful imagery associated with winning Chocolate For Life (!!!), delivered by the truckload.
Nelly let me know when to read faster or slow down, with a kick here or there to my ear. Or would rumble the whole assembly when I tripped up and read Grandma Georgina's lines in Grandpa Joe's voice. (It's hard to be Dad, more than expected.) And night after night, we got deeper into Wonka's world.
Upon reaching the Oompa Loompas, however, Eleanor decided she needed to see these things for herself! No more hanging around! She packed her belongings in a red handkerchief on a stick and came through the rabbit hole.
We are thrilled to have her and look forward to the day we can pull her from her submarine and hold her in our arms.


P.S. These are a few of the pages I started making for Nelly's baby book. Even though Shalae's great album and Durin's wonderful collections made the process easy, I haven't quite finished this simple 10-page album. I think it had something to do with being really busy shuttling back and forth to the NICU for the first three weeks after she was born. At the time, it gave me something to do while I wasn't at the hospital, but once Nelly came home, I quickly lost my digital scrapbook time!

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